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The Sabalamby Shelter Home was established in 1998. It is
situated in the village Malni about 1 km away from Netrakona
Town and offers space for 8 girls or women.
There are two rooms with attached bathroom and a cooking place.
Aim of the Shelter Home is it firstly to give distressed women
who are in any kind of emergency or crisis a secure place
to come and stay and to provide food and services like Health
Service or Legal Aid. The second goal is to offer them a future
perspective outside the Shelter Home. The girls should be
able to see a sense in their lives again. Therefore Sabalamby
offers them to take part in its skill training program where
they can learn tailoring and also get some numeracy, literacy
and awareness training. As part of the skill training they
get a small allowance from which they are saving one part
to buy a sewing machine after finishing the course. But often
the reintegration into society is very difficult. Illegitimated
children, rape and divorce the most frequent problems of the
Shelter Home residents, are the main causes for lifelong stigmatization
of women in Bangladesh. Therefore many planned future visions
discussed in the weekly counseling session might always stay
a dream. Nevertheless Sabalamby tries with focused work together
with the woman and with her community and with a one year
follow-up to raise awareness for her situation and to make
the reintegration successful.
Shiuli is 18 years old. She comes from a village called Betali
near Netrakona. She never went to school. Her father left
the family when she was stilla baby. For the
family's survival her mother started to work bari-bari which
means that she goes from house to house and offers her service.
Shiuli's older brother works in a small shop.
They have no own house and mostly
sleep on some neighbor's veranda.As her mother lives without
a husband, is poor, has no own place to live and works bari-bari
her reputation is very bad.Shiuli was often alone when her
mother went to find work. Then she was harassed and insulted
and her mother became afraid about her security. Therefore
she asked Sabalamby if Shiuli could stay in their Shelter
Home. Shiuli is now 3 month living there, she still feels
shy, but she likes her new surroundings and also the skill
training. After finishing her 1-year tailoring course Shiuli
wants to buy a own sewing machine and hopes to save so much
money that she can build one day a small house for her family.
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